Mar 31 2008
Belated resolutions, counting down to what?
Well……time for a reality check.
I have a very full and busy life. This is nothing new; I have been going at top speed for years, thinking that I would never burn out. I have always assumed that I would sleep when I got “old”. I’m not sorry or regretful for this.
I recently made a list of all my long and short term goals, in all areas of my life; personal, professional, financial and educational. It’s a little late for a New Year’s resolution, but as you may have guessed, I’m running a little behind.
Why? I forgot to schedule it.
(Sounds crazy I know but read on, I do have a point.)
One of the things I noticed about my lists was that in each area I made some mention of getting more organized or increasing my quality time, whether it be at work, with my husband, my children or just my “me” time. I am thinking that the key to both these items may be the same.
I read a great blog post today about how having a schedule can really improve your quality of life. Rather than dictate each day, (that would be boring) a schedule helps to keep you on track, and ensures that the good stuff (like hiking, date night, or baseball with the kids) doesn’t accidentally get overlooked while you are doing more “important” things.
My planner keeps me from forgetting birthdays and special occasions, which make me happy, because I love to celebrate. Thanks to the calendar, I am habitually early, which sets a good example for my kids. It also reminds me to take time every day to read the comics (conveniently delivered to my inbox!), reach out to others, share what I know and learn at least one new thing along the way.
What it doesn’t do is this: It doesn’t force me to abide by other people’s deadlines. A deadline at work is one thing, but that doesn’t mean I have to give up what’s important to me, I just have to manage my time in a way that allows for both. Not always easy, but definitely do-able.
So my slightly delayed resolution is this: to continue to improve my planner/organization system while making a conscious effort not to go overboard on time restraints. We are given so little time in the grand scheme of things. Why waste it on worry?
I love to write and I am glad that my posts are at times amusing, and even a little helpful to some. Do I post everyday? No. Will I ever? Probably not, but if I am doing the things I love then I am going to stop worrying about other people’s time lines. I have enough things to do, experience and remember of my own.

